Some view oral sex as casual and risk-free, while others use oral and anal sex as a way to technically preserve their virginity. A sex is about trust, respect and intimacy, so there are a bunch of different ways that you can have sex. Oral sex or sex with a toy is something that two partners can share, as well as. Dont lecture your teen or rely on scare tactics to discourage sexual activity. Your teen needs accurate information about sex but its just as important to talk about feelings, attitudes and values. is oral sex really sex? The 14 girls assembled for the sleepover were ages 13 to 17 and had a range of sexual experience or inexperience. Unprotected sex comes with very real adult consequences pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. Educate your teen about the transmission of diseases like herpes, genital warts and other stds. Talk to your teen about how to use a condom, where to get them and why protection is necessary when being sexually intimate. It is a fact-based realistic view of what the sexual activities teens are engaging in. Talk to your child about sex (including oral sex) early and often. Forget what you heard from clinton or anyone else about what sex is and isnt. Obviously burns and her colleagues couldnt talk to every teen girl in america, so there may well be girls out there who are having joyous and mutually satisfying oral sex. Middle-class canadian girls are giving oral sex after school to pay. Getting the releases was not difficult because the parents wanted to talk about.