My first time story was a little shitty, but probably not in the way youd expect. I was in college, and id waited to have sex with my first real boyfriend. When we asked for the best stories about the first time you had sex, we knew there would be some weird offerings. 43 girls get real about the first time they had sex how they knew they were ready, who they did it with, and how they felt afterward. Although having sex for the first time is a big milestone in your life, we want to urge you not to stress about it being perfect or feel pressured to do it. Losing your virginity is a memorable moment and we want to share a variety of personal first time stories from males, females, homosexuals , and heterosexuals to prove that most peoples first time is not completely perfect. having sex for the first time, or losing your virginity, is an important life event for many people. Deciding if you are ready to have sex for the first time is very personal. Whether its your first time or not, you should only have sex if you feel enthusiastic about it. We received submissions from women in their teens through their 50s, within the united states and abroad. And even though everyone had a story about their first time, each of those stories is very different. The diversity of experiences shared with us further underscores the fact that a persons first time can mean a lot of different things.